Had you ever been in the situation where your heart suddenly beats so fast, losing your ability to think, having the sudden loss for words when seeing someone you admired? At that very moment, you were like frozen in time, lost into another world, a world so wonderful, so heavenly? Hmm… How is my description? Ha whatever, the fact is that at that very moment, you were totally defenseless. So defenseless that anything could have just hit you. An arrow? An arrow of love? Get what I mean?

Ok, let me share with you an experience of mine, a memory of my college days. Those were the days when we would always hang out in a big group, a group of both guys and girls, partying and having fun together. There was this fine evening that we gathered at a friend’s place for a little party, followed by some games of Black Jack during the later evening. We were sited in one big circle in this nice and cozy room. Sitting beside me was this girl, a very beautiful girl I must admit. But well, it had never cross my mind of a relationship further than that of a friend with her. There just wasn’t any chemistry between us. Then came an ace for me! Before I realize anything, this girl beside me suddenly just came in so close on me. I know she was just been excited and curious on whether I would get my Jack. But at this very moment, her knee was on my lap, shoulder right in front of my chest. We were suddenly just so close; I could feel the beautiful fragrance from her soft silky hair. My heart was suddenly pounding so fast, gasping for breath. I was totally at loss, for that very moment, she got me! That chemistry, that frequency, which had never happened between us suddenly just flowed through me so relentlessly. Just imagine, if she were to give me a peck on my cheek out of excitement if I got a Black Jack. Ha well, that of course did not happen and neither did I get my jack.

Get the picture now? This is a very natural human psychological reaction. When one is in the stage experiencing that sudden increase in the heartbeat, undergoing a sudden feeling of excitement, he tends to get confused, unknowingly developing that feeling of liking for that someone beside him, especially when the person is of the opposite sex. An opposite sex of, whom he does not have any bad impression. Not to mention an opposite sex of whom he has a good impression of?

Ha! I know what is on your mind now. But well, there is nothing wrong, why not? Go create that perfect atmosphere; an atmosphere that would make one’s heart beats faster. An atmosphere that would make the sudden chemistry of love flowing between both of you. A roller coaster ride? A haunted house adventure? Having a good laugh together after the rides? A little nice chatting session over the coffee table after a game of his favorite sports, tennis? Singing her a love song with your guitar in front of everyone?

Think about it, you plan yours. Take it slowly; build up that chemistry of love between both of you. You are definitely on the right track.

Rick Valens

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How To Build Up Relationship With A Girl

Girls are really sensitive and clever too. Its not that easy for a guy to confess his love in front of a girl.

If you want to be in a relationship, then you have to take some steps to make that relationship stronger and to keep it running.

Here are the steps that you need to build up a relationship with a girl:

Do’s

1. Have A Conversation: If you can talk to her directly, thats good but if you can’t, then you should just look for the right time, for eg. If you find her talking to some guy or girl about anything, just start talking to her about the same or related topic.

Note: You must have some knowledge of that topic.

Don’t: Please don’t talk anything rubbish.

2. Friendship: “Would you like to be my friend?” – This is the question that you need to ask her after having enough of talks.

Don’t: Please don’t propose her before you make her your friend.

3. Gain Her Trust: Girls are always in search of true friendship, prove them that you rock and you can do anything for her.

Don’t: Please don’t show them that you can’t live without them, else they will let you die. LOL!

4. Attitude: Now, its the time to show some attitude to them, by ignoring them, or by any other way that you like.

5. Be romantic. Here are some romantic ideas.

Don’t: Please don’t try to be over smart, else they will kick you out of their life.

Other Dont’s:

1. Don’t Lie: Don’t lie to them, just be honest to them so that they can trust you.

2. Don’t Cheat: Double dating might be fun for you, but it can ruin three lives, i.e. your’s, your first girlfriend’s and the other girlfriend’s, so never go for more than one relationship at a time.

3. Don’t Act Oversmart: If you are smart, you are good but if you are oversmart, then you are bad, so be smart, not oversmart.

If you keep the above things in mind, then you will be living a happy life with your loved one forever.